Still Contented – 1st February

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I have decided to start February Photofest 2018 by revisiting an image entitled Contented, which I posted in March 2017,   and justify this by saying it is ‘throwback Thursday’!

I have posted the image in colour this time and also included the original black and white version below.


February Photofest

February Photofest 2018

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One of the reasons I created my Twitter account was to help increase my self-confidence by posting erotic photos of myself.  I had a desperate need to feel desirable and sexy as I had rarely been made to feel this way.  A couple of years later, I created this blog to continue to share my photos and to write about my thoughts and feelings on sex and relationships.

My blogging and photo-sharing has gradually slipped away over the last six months or so, mainly due to life being very busy and unpredictable, but there is also apathy and a lack of creativity on my part.   I spotted the February Photofest meme last night and knew straightaway that this was something that would be a challenge and would get my mind working and my creative juices flowing again.  Thank you, Molly, for providing another wonderful meme.

I have been delighted to have had the opportunity to participate in various other memes kindly hosted by fellow sex bloggers, which not only spark creativity but provide the opportunity to share posts and photos to a wider audience. And of course, to engage with the wonderful and talented sex blogging community.

February Photofest

 

Chemistry

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I wanted sex

No strings or ties

But where to start?

I found a site

That seemed just right

For getting laid

That’s all I wanted

A simple profile

Led to 500 replies

I was overwhelmed

And appalled at some

I wanted a connection

Chemistry was key

I replied to a few

A pattern commenced

A handful of messages

A coffee date

Trying to force interest

No real attraction

But it’s only sex

Is chemistry important?

A  stream of fresh hope

One sparks my interest

He sounds a bit different

But perhaps a touch arrogant?

And no flexibility

Too much competition

No thank you sent

Six months pass

Several experiences

Disillusioned by now

I’d rather stay celibate

Profile deleted

A new year commences

I’ll try again

Rewritten profile

I am firm in my words

It scares them away

He appears again

Not remembering me

His profile intrigues me

I send a message

He replies straightaway

 I’m never going to meet him

No more married men

We talk frankly and openly

On a regular basis

I don’t plan to meet him

He tells me about tantra

He wants a regular partner

No more one-offs

But I’m never going to meet him

Eventually I relent

I’m interested in tantric

We meet for a coffee

He’s not what I expected

Not arrogant at all

We kiss in the street

He says I’m great

He’s keen, very keen

I like him a lot

We meet for sex

He’s still very keen

I wonder why

What does he see in me?

We meet each week

For sex in a hotel room

We message each evening

We start to meet socially

And message more frequently

The sex gets more intense

He’s loving and caring

Passion abounds

He tells me often

He’d be lost without me

I feel special and loved

And sexy and desirable

He’s kind and gentle

And good with his hands

The orgasms I give blow him away

He tolerates my rants

And my skewed way of thinking

He never tires of my company

The feeling is mutual

He grins broadly

When we’re together

Because he’s with me

Our kisses are electric

And spark every nerve

Our chemistry is visible

He is my soulmate

We were meant to be

 

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Red Hot

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I adore the colour red and red comes in many shades, so this recent image of me modelling a very sexy babydoll for a lingerie review seems perfect to share for Sinful Sunday.

See more pictures here of my review of  theLovehoney Plus Size Moonlight Black Plunge Babydoll Set for the Cara Sutra Pleasure Panel.

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Sinful Sunday

Elust 99

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Elust 99

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The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #100 Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Private Eyes
Brittle
Lust Highway

 

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

I love a man in a suit
Church Smells, Beliefs and Fornication

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

The House Next Door

 

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Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Feelings about bisexuality
On scheduling sex
Reasons I Didn’t Orgasm That Aren’t About You

Erotic Non-Fiction

Wet on the Washer
Smack
Alice Takes a Spanking
The GP – Part Two

Erotic Fiction

Rope Tattoo
Poseidon
Taking the Lead
Rites of Passage ~ Part 4
Home
Spanking Desires
How Could I Resist
Summer Smoke
Angel on My Shoulder

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Marks are Memories on the Skin
Him. His cane
Being Naked
A Prickly Situation
Collars in bdsm: Where did they come from?

Poetry

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Why I Love Handjobs

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Handjobs are magical. The way in which a few simple hand and wrist movements can transform a limp, flaccid organ into a proud, erect cock is truly amazing. A handjob is so versatile and can be adapted to circumstances or time available.

Handjobs feature a great deal in my relationship with S and are an act that I adore performing and get a great deal of pleasure from.

One of the ways I give a handjob is to combine it with a blowjob. I lie alongside S, with my head on his stomach, which is a huge turn-on for him. I start by pouring a small amount of baby oil onto his cock and let it run slowly down. I thoroughly massage the oil into his balls before moving my attention to his cock. I squeeze and stretch it, just the way he likes it. Once he starts to respond, I grip the shaft firmly and move my hand up very slowly until I reach the tip. I then slowly move my hand back down, lingering to run my thumb over his frenulum. After a few repetitions, I concentrate purely on the shaft by massaging and squeezing very firmly. When he starts to moan, I bend my head and suck and lick his cock. When it looks as if he is going to come, I pause for a few moments and start again. And then again and again. When I it’s time for him to come, I concentrate on his frenulum. A few strokes and he cannot hold back any longer. I keep rubbing, delighting at the warm stream erupting from his cock.  I continue to rub the same spot after he has ejaculated, which sees him juddering and convulsing in ecstasy for several moments.   Seeing and hearing the pleasure that S experiences from a simple handjob is immensely satisfying for me.

It’s not always possible to spend as much time as we would like to engaged in long and sensual  carnal pursuits. Sometimes, we have to make the most of our surroundings and any opportunities that arise. Otherwise known as a bit of car action. The car action mainly occurs following a lunchtime meeting in a pub. The first time we took advantage of a pub car park was completely spontaneous. The car was parked on the far side of the car park with no other cars nearby; from this position I could keep an eye on anyone nearby. I reached over and started to feel S’s cock through his jeans. He didn’t need any encouragement and positioned himself so I could easily get access to his cock. When giving a car handjob I end up using my left hand instead of my right, so it’s a little tricky to get the correct wrist movement. However, once in the rhythm, this is not too much of a problem.  Given the location, a car handjob is usually a quick act as I don’t tease him as I would usually. I concentrate on the movements that I know will get a quick result. I love that I get to see his reactions from a different angle. I also like the exhibitionistic element of it, which is definitely a turn on.

Giving a lingam massage is basically a handjob with two hands, but so much more than a quick up and down of the wrist. The ways in which a cock can be massaged to bring pleasure are endless. However, I will write in more detail on this particular area another time.

 

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