I am Miss Scarlet; a 40-something voluptuous and curvaceous woman living in the north west of England. In 2014, I randomly discovered the ‘dark’ side of Twitter, which resulted in awakening my sexual curiosity and rekindled a hidden desire to share tasteful nude pictures of myself. I had always lacked confidence in my abilities and my body, and Twitter provided the perfect way to develop my sexual interest among like-minded people and to anonymously share erotic pictures of myself. I quickly built up a loyal following and discovered some very lovely and quite wonderful people. I realised that there were thousands of people like myself, all pursuing a natural and healthy interest in sexual matters, but in a (mostly) non-judgmental and safe environment.
I chose my pseudonym, Miss Scarlet, as I love the colour red. Some people mistakenly think I am a dominatrix because I use the title ‘Miss’; I’m definitely not!. If I had to define a particular kink for myself, I would say I have an exhibitionist and voyeuristic side over and above anything else. And I love giving and receiving oral sex. If you want to know a few random (non-sexual) facts about me, Icebreaker was my first post on the blog.
I started blogging in April 2015. It was something that I had been interested in doing since I discovered Twitter, but I was doubtful that I had anything of interest to write about, especially considering I didn’t have a sex life. However, I had many thoughts and opinions on sex-related issues, such as oral sex, and these inspired me to get writing. In my original ‘About Me’ page I referred to this blog as a lack of sex blog rather than a sex blog as, although married, sex had completely disappeared from my life. I went on to write about the lack of sex in marriage and how it affected me, which was a subject that struck a chord with many people; I discovered that there was a huge number of couples in similar situations. It was an issue that took a lot of courage to tackle in my own life and I was overwhelmed by the wonderful support and advice from Twitter users and from readers of the blog.
One of my early posts explains why I chose to share tasteful nude pictures of myself on the internet. It received many positive and supportive comments from men and women alike. That helped to increase my confidence in showing the bits of my body I am less happy with. Body positivity is something I am passionate about and am firmly of the belief that all bodies are beautiful and any perceived imperfections should be embraced as they are what make us unique. I am an occasional naturist and have written here about my interest in the beautiful and liberating experience of being clothes-free.
From time to time, I take part in blogging memes, such as Sinful Sunday, Wicked Wednesday, Kink of the Week and Boobday, which are great opportunities for sharing images and thoughts among a wonderful community of non-judgmental and sex-positive people.
I am now in a position where I am fortunate enough to have sex on a regular basis and have met a lovely man, who is in a similar position to me. The terms friend with benefits or fuckbuddy aren’t really appropriate to describe our relationship, so I shall refer to him as my lover. I do write occasionally about our erotic adventures together, which include a visit to a swingers’ club. I’m sure he will also take great delight in assisting me to participate more in the Scavenger Hunt meme, which is something which I would like to do more of. It can be very difficult to take solo pictures in public places!
I don’t plan to write erotic stories; there are bloggers and authors out there that do it very well, and far better than I ever could. However, I am interested in writing sex toy reviews, but I have yet to get organised in this respect.
Feel free to comment; I appreciate the time and trouble taken to read my blog and I will always try and reply.
Updated 28th October 2016