Food for Thought Friday #2: The Naked Truth

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Are you at ease being naked? Do you feel more comfortable clothed or unclothed? Can you explain why you feel this way?

For me, being at ease with being naked has three distinct elements:

Body Confidence

Putting on weight gradually over a number of years meant that I did not feel particularly confident with the way that my body looked. Part of the way of trying to overcome this was to share tasteful pictures of my body on Twitter. This was a huge step for me, as I wanted to push my boundaries and do something that would usually be out of character for me.  Baring all not only helped to increase my confidence, but also provided an outlet for my exhibitionist side.

I was overwhelmed by the kind and positive comments received in response to my nude form and it was only then I realised that you didn’t have to be thin and petite for both men and women to think your body looked OK. And the fact that you might even be considered to be sexually attractive too was a real bonus! So, this definitely made me more at ease with my own nudity.

I did write a blog post some time ago regarding body confidence and expands the point above further.

Exhibitionism

I have always been a shy person, but the underlying desire to ‘show my body off’ in some way has been there since around the age of 18. But this urge hasn’t really been allowed to surface until the last couple of years. The fact that I enjoy being naked, and now have more body confidence, helps to fuel the exhibitionist streak. Knowing that someone is sexually aroused as a result of looking at my naked body, whether that be part of a sexual encounter or by looking at photos gives me an enormous confidence boost.

I enjoy posing for photos, albeit mainly indoors by myself, and only for the camera timer, but it would be nice to have an enthusiastic accomplice for this activity.  I have taken a couple of scavenger hunt selfies outdoors, which I did get a thrill out of doing, and I hope to have the opportunity to explore this further.

Naturism

I absolutely adore being naked outside and have always found it to be an incredibly uplifting and liberating experience.   Unfortunately, I don’t get the opportunity to strip off outdoors as often as I would like due to lack of suitable locations, an overlooked back garden and the UK weather, but I have been able to visit a couple of nudist beaches over the years and have also visited a wonderful naturist spa on a  number of occasions.

At home, I don’t tend to frequently spend long periods of time naked, despite being there for long periods of time by myself; it just doesn’t  occur to me. Although, I may try and make a more of a conscious effort to strip off at home.  I do always sleep naked though – whatever the time of year.  My husband, although not  generally prudish, is not that comfortable with nudity beyond what is deemed necessary. For example, if I walked around in the nude first thing in the morning or last thing at night, he wouldn’t comment, or probably even notice!  But if I did this at other times of the day, I know he would feel  uncomfortable with it. He did visit a nudist beach many years ago with me, and hated the experience.

The feeling of the sun or a light breeze on the naked body is a wonderful experience. To be able to walk around free from clothing. To sit in a hot tub. To be surrounded by other people of all shapes and sizes who are all comfortable in their bodies.When I have been in a naturist environment, I have not found it it to be a sexual experience and certainly have never used it as an opportunity to get a thrill out of people looking at my naked form. In fact, that is far from my mind. A good description for the experience is sensual, which someone used when commenting on my previous blog post on naturism. And I genuinely think that everyone’s body is beautiful in different ways, so what could be more sensual than that?

To summarise,  I am at ease being naked and the type of enjoyment experienced depends on the situation I happen to be naked for!

 

 

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23 thoughts on “Food for Thought Friday #2: The Naked Truth

  1. I liked reading this. Jill can definitely relate to issues of body confidence. As for exhibitionism, we both like showing off at times. We’re not really naturists, though we have been naked in the great outdoors and generally enjoyed it, but we’re not big fans of clothing around the house.

    And the accompanying photo is beyond beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing it.

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  2. You being comfortable with your own body makes me wanna love your body more….. but i never mentioned it to you because i thought you wouldn’t wanna hear me getting turned on by your body as i already did before. Again, well done and Love you 🙂 Xx

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  3. You sound like a natural nudist! I used to forget to take my clothes off, but then made a conscious decision to be nude as often as possible (temperature and modesty permitting, of course). Made a huge difference. Like you, it’s a freeing and non-sexual, and, as you said, sensual experience. I just wish more people enjoyed it (maybe turn the tide so that nudity is more acceptable).

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  4. It is great that you have found comfort in your body. Like you, I think your body looks great. Like your husband I would probably be uncomfortable on a nude beach for I have only experienced nudity with a woman 1 on 1. 2016 is the year of new experiences for me and aptly responding to blogs is a start for “interesting”. See, what I find interesting about you is, you are attractive – no doubt. You, you understand that you have to think of yourself as being attractive, hence exhibitions. This is key. And you run with it. Aggressiveness, I love it and I love your look. I will stop here; otherwise, you’ll be like, “dude, this is not your blog.”

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  5. I am curious as to how you see your comfort with being naked connected to exhibitionism. If you don’t mind my asking do you get a sexual thrill from being naked or seen naked or are you just comfortable being nude and being seen by others non sexually

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  6. dave

    I defo get what you’re saying, I like nothing more after a shower than not rushing to get dressed but because of my working hours and a 12 year old in the house it’s not always possible, but it is all about body confidence and feeling comfortable with what you’ve got

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  7. Doug Jones

    I have not been with a single woman who is not concerned about some aspect of her body. And the same is true for many men.

    It won’t necessarily be easy, but please believe that many of us find your body not only attractive, but relish seeing it. This is in contrast to the artfully constructed, but ultimately inauthentic, soft porn pictures of perfectly sculptured bodies that litter the internet. Why? Because your body is real. Because it’s you.

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